man-hunt pursuit en-route

you are chasing after who you want,

who you want is chasing after who they want,

while who wants you is chasing after you and,

who wants them is chasing after them...

when we all should be chasing after sense of self,

when we all should be chasing after sense of being,

when we all should be chasing after sense of knowing,

only then can we truly know the sense of wanting,

only then can we truly know why we are chasing.

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the chase

Have men given up the manly part of them, the part that was engrafted in them before his daddy’s spermatozoon (seed) fertilizes his momma’s ovum (egg) to form him (zygote or single cell with a set of chromosomes)--wait, I may be going too deep, let me remain focused. Okay, so, I like to think that when a sperm is released and swimming around with it’s purpose underway - the end piece and tail are working hard to push the head in the direction of the egg, that is the where I believe the seeker, the hunter part of man is inbred.

 

I was once told that men are hunters so their natural instinct is to seek and devour. They like the thrill of the hunt and are excited by the chase. Fellas, is this true? I am going to assume, Yes, so that I can make my point. :) LOL

 

Why then, do men give up after they realize it's not going to be as easy as they thought to get the girl? I mean, WHAT happen to men putting in work to plant the seed, to fertilize, and wait for growth? It may take all of a few seconds or at least five days  after release for a healthy sperm cell to fertilize the egg, right? I mean that indicates time, attention, detail, waiting, so in other words fellas, you have the patience in you to wait, you have the instinct to chase and as far as I’m concerned, your makeup says that you love the hunt. So, in retrospect, you are made to put in the work required.

 

But many men give up after hearing, N-O. Don't they realize women want to be chased, we want the experience of being hunted-the intrigue is like foreplay to us, you know putting in work to get what she knows she can give. We like to know that my every denial comes with the challenge of triumph. Some of us, enjoy the predicaments of betrayal that our flesh places us. And, contrary to what men think, we have game too and part of that game is to see how much work a man will put in to get what he wants from her. How hard are you willing to put in the work to get what it is you desire?

 

I'm no relationship or dating expert, but I've experienced enough FB inbox messages, and random texts, or men walking up to me with a line or two about my beauty or sex appeal of which I normally respond to partly because I like hearing it, but mostly because I already know where it's headed. When, my answer is not as open to the suggestion of what they want, they give up. And, oh so easily. LOL - that’s such a turn off and so not manly.

 

Okay, so enough about that - I feel like I’ve made my point on that topic. I really started this conversation with myself (that means, I was thinking, not that I’m crazy), because I read an article on the website #madamnoire  Straight From His Mouth: Sex And The Moment of Clarity where the writer breaks it down about the male's "moment of clarity." He says, this “moment of clarity” happens after a woman has given in to the chase and given up the goodies. He described how men "smash and dash" on women because they realize she isn't the one for him. Totally unfair right, it's like we give in just to be given up on--but, what if… LOL

 

control...

thinking about some of the things that hold us back from living.

too many of us are living our lives trying to be in complete control of who we are and worrying about losing that control or compromising ourselves for the sake of what we think others want from us. but in actuality maybe it's something that we really want for ourselves. no one wants to be so impenetrable, and i get that we don't want to be the type of individuals that are loose cannons either. but how can we be sure that we at least fall somewhere in the middle? maybe just allowing yourself a little uncontrollable laugh (i use to hate when i couldn't control my laughter), or allowing yourself to have that  rendezvous with someone you're attracted too, or how about simply being honest about your feelings, maybe it's time to buy those shoes that you always tell yourself you cannot afford, but have been eyeballing them, for over a year and the price hasn't dropped. i'm just thinking that whatever situation you find yourself in--why not try to find the purpose behind it. 

i'm simply saying that you cannot be so tightly wound that you're missing out on life because it's not in your perspective of how things should be. so what if you've met someone and you like them more than you've ever met someone that you've just met--ever, maybe it's God's way of showing you something about yourself that you aren't aware. in life, we have to learn that all things are relative and being overly protective of our feelings and desires, can lead us to a lonely and miserable place. be uninhibited for just a few seconds and see how you feel. i'm just saying, go with the flow, or be spontaneous--it can be freeing.

now, i'm not saying go out and do something completely crazy that will land you in prison or a psychiatric ward, but maybe change your perspective do something that might make you smile when you think back on it.

think about it like this... sometimes when you lose yourself, you may actually find yourself. so, go lose control... LOL

Transference, perception, reality.. ehh

There is a positive energy surrounding me daily--surrounding us all daily actually. I believe that God always places me in a period of random moments of reflection and meditation for a reason. I am a thinker, communicator, a healer, a knowledge seeker, writer, and a visionary (well I would have to define visionary based on my own truth). However, these characteristics, IMO surely leads to some accidental truths or better yet, me--always having some thought provoking comments or conversations. I do everything based on my emotions, EVERYTHING, and these past two days; emotion-FULL! :) But, The Giver of Life has shown me a few things about the emotions of others and I'd like to share this moment of reflection based on my own emotions i.e., but another's perception.

We should always be mindful of the feelings of others, but we shouldn't transfer our feelings and emotions onto them based on our own perception. This is called "transference" when you do this... You're causing your energy to unconsciously shift onto them... And we must understand that their emotions or feelings may not be that of our own.

I ask you this, What if those feelings and emotions are negative? What if the perception is negative--simply untrue? That would mean, you are allowing negative energy to be transferred onto you.

THIS, is how our moods shift to "feeling some type of way," which really translates to unnecessary feelings and emotions that do not line up with ones own spirit. It creates mixed feelings and emotions. When you do not know who you are inward and self reflection often never comes... then you'll be easily influenced into believing another's perception of you, or their transferred energy about you.

From the quote that everyone's heard or read before, "Perception is nine-tenths of reality," I have to wonder is perception "honestly" nine-tenths of reality? Whose reality? Mine? Yours? Another's? Perception is nine-tenths of my own reality, but certainly not that of yours.

Think about it.